Language of the Day: "Who" vs. "Whom"

If you've ever paused mid-sentence wondering whether to use who or whom, you're not alone. These two pronouns have tripped up even the most seasoned writers. But don’t worry—this blog post will break it down in a way that’s easy to understand and remember!

 

🔍 The Basic Rule

  • Who is used as a subject (the one doing the action).

  • Whom is used as an object (the one receiving the action).

Think of it like this:

  • Who = he/she/they

  • Whom = him/her/them

If you can replace the word with he or she, use who.
If you can replace it with him or her, use whom.

🧠 Examples in Action

  1. Who is coming to the party?

    • Try replacing: He is coming to the party. ✅

    • So, who is correct.

  2. To whom should I address the letter?

    • Try replacing: I should address the letter to him. ✅

    • So, whom is correct.

  3. She’s the one who called you.

    • She called you. ✅

    • Use who.

  4. You met the person whom I recommended.

    • I recommended him. ✅

    • Use whom.

🛠 Quick Tip: The “Him Test”

If you're unsure, try the “him test”:

  • If you can answer the question with him, then whom is correct.

  • If you answer with he, then who is correct.

Example:

  • Question: ___ do you trust?

  • Answer: I trust him → So, use whom.

🤓 Why It Still Matters

While whom is becoming less common in casual speech, it’s still important in formal writing, academic work, and professional communication. Using it correctly can make your writing sound polished and precise.

 
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